Am I immoral? Am I weak?
We do not buy children, we educate them.
The good education is that they participate and behave with respect spontaneously and naturally...
We do not buy children, we educate them.
The good education is that they participate and behave with respect spontaneously and naturally...
Okay. Except that between our values and reality there is a huge difference!
Mostly, I noted that what worked when they were 5 years old, no longer works when they are 8 or 10 years old.
So I'm still looking for information and obviously we always have anything and everything.
Some specialists invite us to favor the reward while others see it as a blackmail.
Because after expressing their desire for hours of video games, there are other “rewards” that they make me discover:
- “Mom, come more often to see me play football”
- “And what if we go all together at the cinema”
- “Can we plan a trip to the pool Saturday all together!”
- ...
My conclusion is simple:
- spend more time with them,
- give them recognition,
- and spoil them materially in an good and exceptional way... which I already do by the way!